Well, here we are—2025. As I step into the new year, I’ve decided to make some changes, and I’d love to share them with all of you. The first—and possibly the most liberating—was deleting my Facebook account. Yes, you read that right. After years of scrolling, posting, and wading through the endless digital noise, I finally hit the delete button. And you know what? It feels fantastic.
This decision wasn’t impulsive; it’s something I’ve been thinking about for a long time. Facebook always felt like a treadmill I couldn’t get off, and it rarely added anything meaningful to my life. Now, I feel lighter—freer, even. Social media often masquerades as connection, but it often left me feeling more disconnected from the real world. So, I’m shifting gears. If you want to stay in touch (and I hope you do!), email will now be my go-to method of communication. Or better yet, you’re welcome to leave comments here on my blog! And for those who love the nostalgia of ink and paper, I’d absolutely adore receiving letters or surprises in my post office box. There’s something deeply personal and heartwarming about snail mail, don’t you think?
A Fresh Approach to Blogging
Speaking of this blog, I’ve decided to shake things up this year. Gone are the days of rigid schedules and carefully timed posts. From now on, I’ll hit “publish” as soon as I finish a post. It’s a bit scary to let go of the structure, but I want this space to feel more authentic and less like a chore. Writing has always been a source of joy for me, and I want to recapture that spontaneity. So, expect posts to pop up randomly—whenever inspiration strikes!
Taking Photography to the Next Level
Another exciting shift for 2025 is my photography. As you might know, it’s a passion that has been part of my life for as long as I can remember. This year, I’m doubling down. I want to take my work to the next level, not just in skill but also in creativity and exploration. I hope to visit new places, wander off the beaten path, and capture moments that speak to the soul.
To help with this, I’m planning to invest in a second camera. My current setup is fantastic, but having another tool in my arsenal will allow me to dive into more niche pursuits. Whether it’s experimenting with different lenses, playing with unique formats, or simply having a backup for more adventurous shoots, I’m excited to expand my creative toolkit.
Let’s Keep in Touch
Without Facebook in the mix, I genuinely hope to create deeper and more meaningful connections in other ways. Email, blog comments, or even snail mail—pick your favorite, and let’s make this year one of connection and creativity.
As one who never created an account, welcome to my world sans FB. It’s grrrreat!
In my life, I have had TWO Facebook accounts. I lost the first one shortly after I broke up with my ex-girlfriend in 2020. At the time, someone suggested that I date a guy, and when I referred to men as being pigs (some are, not all), they kicked me off the platform for hate speech. Eventually, I started a new Facebook account under a different email address, only to close it and abandon the platform for good. I hate social media, and classify it as unnecessary, and a contributing factor to the downfall of modern society.
I agree with you on “unnecessary, and a contributing factor to the downfall of modern society” regarding social media, in general. We can become proof of the possibility of living a rich and fulfilling life free of the latest social media apps vying for people’s constant attention!
Exactly! If I wanted attention from people, I’d run down the street naked.
…Again. 😉
I remember when I created my MySpace page. Largely forgotten now it was different from Facebook and other current social media sites in that it allowed more customization, more individuality. It wasn’t something I was conscious of at the time but when I went to another person’s page I felt like I was a guest in their space and should be respectful.
Of course there’s no excuse for not being respectful in any platform but I prefer blogs like this one. I enjoy the way you express yourself and I always want to be a good guest.
Oh, I remember MySpace fondly—it was such a wonderful time. Back then, my circle of friends was pretty small, mostly made up of people from my ex-girlfriend’s family. I used it to share a lot of my photography and writing, and I found it to be such a peaceful, respectful space. Social media today feels like a completely different world—one I hardly recognize anymore. It’s become so toxic. Over the years, I’ve cycled through two Facebook accounts, made two genuine attempts at Instagram, a handful of Reddit profiles, a Twitter account, and even had brief stints on Mastodon and BlueSky.
Through it all, I’ve poured a lot of effort into making this blog a true reflection of who I am—a little corner of the internet that feels personal and authentic. I’m so grateful you’re here, and I want you to know how much I value your presence. You’ve been an incredible guest, and it means the world to me. 🙂